Abroad is common, living together with a boyfriend, though not married yet. . There is a girl her name Lola, she is a student and is completing a PhD dissertation, she work as a freelance writer. Her mother has a restaurant. She has an intact family, mom and dad who live together, Lola has her own apartment and lives with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is a painter. Until one morning when they get up .... her boyfriend named Luke pulled out a ring and said "Will you marry me Lola?" Without ba bi bu again,,, with a sweet smile, Lola nodded her head, a sign he received. Finallly wedding preparations. Lola notify her family, they were very helpful, ranging from wedding dresses, in acquaintance her mom, catering, invitation letter rint, her mom and her friends help him. Lola very happy. Until one day after fitting clothes, Lola find Luke sitting silent in her apartement. "You stroke Luke?" Asked Lola. Minutes later, just Lola weeping, Luke chose to canceled his wedding, because he not ready. Mama and papa were the hardest sad. Until Lola get sick. Luke repeatedly tried to contact Lola but lola dont care. Papa and mama Lola said that she would get a proper man, and it was not Luke. Her mother suggested to go hangout, to the bar, have fun, spend time with friends, cuz as long as a relationship with Luke, Lola just spent most of her time with Luke, practically no friends other than close friends. Her mother said it was not good for her mentally, like me , when going out, forgotten friends. The world seemed to belong to both.
Her friend took her clubbing to having fun, there is a guy who tried to seduce Lola with mischievous eyes. Instantly Lola got shortness of breath and ran out of the club, her friend finally brought her home. The next day Lola go to restaurant that sell fish ready to eat, where she became acquainted with a buyer as well. The man gave his no hp to Lola. The next day at Bar Lola spent the night drunk and go home until 4 am but not to her apartment, but to her best friend who is also Luke's best friend named Frans, and they make love. Frans is a vocalist who likes gig at Bar. While visiting a concert Frans, Lola meets Luke, and Luke with another woman named Peggy. That's time Lola just knows Luke's reason to canceled the wedding. Lola getting depressed, she revenge on Luke by saying that now she is dating with Frans, and it makes Luke cant forgive Frans, he feels betrayed his best friend. Lola is getting stressed, she called man that she knew in the fish store, and they were dating. Lola as seeking escape. Lola not ready to change his life drastically. Which is usually an early riser there beside Luke, this time she alone. she felt her body start to heat, and will feel pain because of unfulfilled desires, seeking escape with have sex with men close to her. But Frans knows that Lola sleep with other men besides himself, felt Lola just using him to make Luke jealous. Frans eventually retaliated by dating a friend of Lola, her name called Agelina (I forget). Luke invites Lola to come to her birthday party. To dshow off that Lola had MoveOn, then Lola attended luke's party with Angelina. But what happens is Lola still jealous when she saw Peggy so close to Luke, and Lola should be humiliated in public and in front of Luke with Frans revelation now in a relationship with Angelina. Lola cried hysterically, she feels betrayed her friends, she felt that everyone leave her, she felt all guys is bad.
Lola increasingly chaotic life, get drunk with the purchase and only pay $ 2 while the two bottles of beer were $ 10. She frustrating rice. Nothing else can be believed. Cheating boyfriend, best friend betrayed. Fortunately Lola got Mom and Dad were always there for her. Lola was working as a waitress at the restaurant her mother. Her mother advised her to have a child by IVF, because Lola does not young anymore, her mother says, had a child would make her life happy, even if there is no husband or boyfriend. But Lola is not ready, she did not want the added stress of her life with the presence of children. Lola is so missed Luke, until she called Luke and eventually they make love, but Lola was crying, because Luke can not be her own. Lola wants Luke to go away.
In a day in front of a laptop, Lola try completing his dissertation. She reading typed verbatim. From there she was enlightened that she must have a purpose in life, Lola finally tried to focus on his dissertation, until she managed to seminars. Lola has begun to organize her new life. Her father always with her, saying that Lola is still a long life, a lot of new things that have to do. Lola was finally able to forgive those who've hurt her. One day, Lola call Angelina, said sorry for everything she was done, they met, and forgive each other, now Angelina pregnant with Frans, Lola participated happy. Lola asked Anggelina to help preparing her birthday. Birthday arrived, Anggelina prepare beautiful birthday cake, Frans brought the flowers, they sing together, garden party with family and friends. Amid the party, Luke was not invited dating, but he came and asked Lola to getback. Luke said he just needed space at the time, did not want to bond. And Luke realizes that he lost it all. But Lola does not want to getting back anymore, she's happy with her life right now, but Lola had forgiven Luke, and they celebrate together. All soluble happy birthday Lola's party 29. Lola now much more organized life. At the age 29, Lola knows what her purpose in life. She managed to move on.
Broadly speaking, alot of similarities of the story between me and Lola, we both marriage canceled, boyfriend left just like that, and in the toughest period of completing the dissertation, mine thesis. Only difference, Lola's run to drunk, freesex with whoever men close to her, while i am only occurred in the head. And fortunately, the lessons of Lola, with a run to the drinks, clubbing does not make happy and not solve the problem. The problem can be solve when we are in a state of calm and find ourselves again. Now that's what i tried to get up. I need to know what the purpose of my life. And the most important is not to blame others for everything that happens to us. Forgive everything. I would not blame David cuz left me, do not blame on a girl who stole David from me, or even blame God for life's not fair. Wrong ... it's wrong. Forgive and focus on the future i would be much better. Hopefully with this i can move on and come back smiling like Lola.
